Being different is abnormal?

Hello there!

Being happy in life is not a matter of destiny but a matter of choice. Umm! Yeah everyone treats me this way whenever i feel low and motivates me to remain happy all the time by thinking of some good stuffs and memories. They explain- "If you won't try to stay calm and cool and feel like the most unhappy person then how could anyone help? You need to self motivate yourself!." Yeah i got you man! I am not a 5th grade kid to be taught with the stuffs like these. I already know. But i usually wont counter argue with them as it will only increase the duration of our conversation which is one of the things that irritates me. So i usually let it go and put a shakes my head affirmatively just to end the conversation.

Well i totally agree that it is a matter of own choice to be happy or not. And thats why i choosed not to interact and socialize with anyone. But people don't get that. C'mon man! Some folks need privacy and self time. & you should respect that!. Just a few updates of gatherings and party stuffs on social media isn't a proof of your blithe living. Some people prefer to share those moments with a very few people they feel a connection with.

If you do something unlike what others do, doesn't indicate that you are doing something wrong. Different people; so are their different lifestyles and views. Being different doesn't mean being wrong. Well, now it is a matter of choice of how one wants to live their life and what he/she feels like sharing with the world. People need to understand this rather than being judgemental always on every little life event of someone's life. Well its their choice to peek in someone's life and its completely my choice to ignore them fully!

No offense to anyone, just a mere thought!:)
Keep Smiling..:)


With Love,
Natasha :)

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